I found myself in a few conversations this week where people were talking about what their "perfect day" would be like. Someone said theirs would be lying on a beach somewhere sipping fancy drinks. Another person said theirs would be a day at the spa followed by dinner with Kenny Chesney. I get what everyone's talking about- it's like saying if I could be ANYWHERE in the world doing ANYTHING, what would it be?
Here's my two cents and as always take it or leave it.
It's ironic that I'm writing this, because anyone that knows me knows that I'm a perfectionist. Let me be the first to say that being a perfectionist does not insure by any means that things get done perfectly all the time. I make mistakes like anyone else, and sometimes, there just aren't enough hours in a day. Bottom line, life isn't perfect. I was thinking about all of this for two reasons. 1. The above mentioned conversations. 2. I had a newborn shoot the other day and I was telling my husband about it. He replied "You know, that's the third time you've mentioned how much you loved that shoot. I'm glad you're so happy at work!"
When he said that, I realized that I'd been feeling like it was a perfect day. I started the day off like any other of late- the kids waking me up way too early, a cup of coffee and fruit on my detox. I spent some time with my boys and went to work. I came home later in the day and was back with my family of 5. Here's the thing. I love to dream, and in a perfect world my kids might get up at a normal hour. In a perfect world, I could eat whatever I wanted. In a perfect world I could fly to Rome for a day, and someday I just might.
I'm writing this, because what if our days are just as they should be- filled with ups and downs. What if all we can do is our best, leave it at that and call it a perfect day? Not all days feel perfect to me- but I'm grateful for the ones that do, and I'll bet more are better than I already realize. I had a day full of mini-sessions yesterday, and I had that feeling again- so happy to be doing what I was doing. Happy to return to my kittens (that's what I call the kids as a collective) and to spend the evening "on a date" with them. When I came home from the studio, this (see image below ) is what was waiting for me and indeed I realized, it had been another perfect day...
-Ann
P.S. Yes, that is a 10x10' wrestling mat on my family room floor. That's what life brings with three, er' four, perfect boys :)